Security is considered one of the basic needs of humans. For most us, security is important. When we have security, it makes us feel good.
Sometimes you have to try risk taking to get want you want. If you always play it safe you may continue to come up short on your desires.
I like feeling secure as well, but I learned the boring, and ultimately costly way that there will be times when you have to just put yourself out there.
Take a risk! When you’re secure in other aspects you won’t feel so reluctant to go out on a limb.
There are many successful self-made people. If we look at their lives, we'll see that a lot of them endured what most of us would consider being a life full of insecurity.
For instance, there are studies that show that the average self-made millionaire actually went broke at least 3 times before they hit it big.
The majority of us want to be financially secure. However, would you be willing to go broke at least three times in order to achieve financial security?
As for these successful individuals, do they have less need to feel secure? It may be that they view security from a completely different perspective.
What's their secret then?
Most of the time, successful people feel secure. What are they secure about? They're secure about themselves and what they can do. No matter what's happening in the world, these people are secure in the knowledge that they can do anything.
To them, the lack of money is simply a nuisance, an obstacle. They don't get all bent out of shape about that.
Weighing the Risks and Rewards
If you had $250,000 in the bank, wouldn't you feel secure?
If you've got your house all paid off, you've got a stable job that pays well, and you've got health insurance, there's no reason you shouldn't feel secure. So what's the problem?
All these things do take time to achieve — we're not immortals.
So, in order to achieve things that would give us that security we want, the quickest way is to take steps that in the short-term would give us a feeling of insecurity.
If you want a secure life, you have to take some necessary risks along the way. Like many things in life, achieving security is all about weight the risks and rewards.
It's risky to start your own business. There's a good chance that you'll go bankrupt. Worst case is you may have to find friends who are willing to let you sleep on their couch while you get yourself back up in the game again.
It's not the end of the world. Who doesn't know Sylvester Stallone? Did you know that when he was trying to sell the script for Rocky, he was flat out broke with a pregnant wife?
He got an offer for $200,000 for the script but he turned it down. Why? The film company had someone else in mind to play Rocky. He accepted a lesser offer for the script because it meant he could star in it.
To him, it was a risk worth taking. Today, his net worth is at least $275 million.
Would you have done the same as Stallone if you were in his shoes? If you were secure with yourself and your ability, then you probably would have!
I bet turning down your first offer would have been like saying no thanks to security. Your initial thought was probably, he was crazy. But look where it got him.
He practiced incredible risk taking, but he knew a better overall offer would come.
The Difference between Inner Security and External Security
To truly be successful, security needs to come from the inside instead of the outside. To start, decide that you're going to change the way you perceive things.
Next, it's important that you believe in yourself, that you can deal with any obstacles that life hurls at you. It's that simple! You shouldn't allow your need to feel secure keep you from doing things that will help you achieve your dreams.
If you choose to wait until you feel secure before going after your dreams, you may not get there at all. Think about it, you could be waiting forever.
So be honest with yourself — do you really need external things for you to finally feel secure? Answer this question honestly and after you do, don't wait for your life to be over before you realize you should have done something earlier to achieve your dreams.
Instead of waiting for the right moment, create it!
What are you dying to do but haven’t because of the risk involved?